Do like-minded people become more understanding or does understanding make people more life-minded?
Thank you both are there see when we think alike then naturally we can understand each other better so it's basically say this is person X, this is person Y when they are like-minded that means the intersection point is high so if the intersection area or the sector is very high, then naturally we can understand each other quite well so that is true the other aspect that understanding people become like-minded that is more like a person seeks to understand that means this is their circle but they are ready to come out of their circle and explore what makes you tick? why do you think like this? why do you act like that? not in a judgmental way but in an inquisitive way they inquire now it is not necessary that understanding people will become like-minded but they will understand each other better because our mind is what they are sometimes we may develop new interests say we meet somebody's interest in a particular field and say we get along with each other nicely and then we get interested in that field also so you could say our circle expands to include what was not there earlier so that's how we could say we are becoming like-minded so it can happen that understanding people become more like-minded because because of their understanding nature they expand their interests but it is not necessary that it will happen sometimes I understand that you like that but you know I don't like it so much we accept that so that is we are all irreducibly individual and our individuality is not reduced by our being more understanding what happens is that our understanding our being more understanding can expand our perimeter of connection so we shouldn't expect that if somebody is not able to understand me somebody is not like-minded even if you have lived with them for a long time that doesn't mean that they are uncaring we just have different interests so whenever we are acting in a relationship we can always focus on that which is in the intersection area that which is naturally of their interest and naturally of my interest that is the safest platform to base the relationship we may expand our interest to something that interests them and they may expand their interest to include something that interests us that is fine but there has to be some basic commonality which is steady where neither they are stretching themselves nor are we stretching ourselves it is naturally we are there does that answer your question? to understand this situation.