If those in power such as Dhritarashtra stay silent amidst injustice can their silence be attributed to their nature (Hindi)?

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so if a person doesn’t speak or stays quiet and he is doing something wrong he is speaking wrong, if he stays quiet it can hurt others if he stays quiet is it his nature is he responsible or not he didn’t say anything when Sunidhi Suni insulted Dhruv, so is it his nature see there are two things all of us can have some nature but if we accept a responsibility if we accept a position so what you do with that position that is our duty so if we to do that what we have to do sacrifice if we are not ready to do that then we have to accept that position suppose this is an insult even in family Sunidhi insulted Sunidhi’s son Dhruv but suppose if a thief steals in a house and he comes to the king and steals then we have to tolerate that now the aim of tolerance is to come from a Brahmin not from a Kshatriya why the aim of Kshatriya is that Brahmins don’t take much material so then there is no need to take much material but the king takes a lot of material so we can say he is living in prosperity so if he is living in prosperity then he has to take a lot of material and that is his duty so even if there is a calm nature if we see in Pandavas so all Pandavas are Kshatriyas but among them Yudhishtira is a Brahmin Kshatriya he is living in peace he is trying to live in peace so if we say so the aim is how a little bit of incitement so both have their own nature Yudhishtira has a calm nature still at a time when the people of Uttar Pradesh the injustice is beyond the limits so Yudhishtira also works Yudhishtira also fights so it is like this that if a person is taking responsibility then it is expected from him that if he is fulfilling then he is doing his duty still in that also the duty The SMG has a thin clear line, we have to walk on this line And different people can do it in different ways So this is from that person’s point of view That person says, it is my nature to stay calm, I will get confused in this and that Ok, if you are going to get confused, then it is your nature But if you have accepted any position, then it is your responsibility If you are like this, if there is a theft and we go to the police, then we get confused in this What is your job? What is your job? So if he has accepted the position, then there is no need to take any responsibility This is from that person’s point of view But from our point of view, when we work Then we also understand that different people have different nature When we talk to each other, we understand that this person’s nature is like this, that person’s nature is like that So we also have to change our expectations to some extent Frustration is often a function of expectation That how much we expect from another person When we don’t work according to our expectations, we get frustrated So if we know that this person’s nature is like this, then we shouldn’t expect more from him It doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t expect from anyone Our relationships also have a gradation There is also a kind of gradation in it How close we can talk to a person About what we can talk to a person So we also have to use our intellect to understand that if a problem arises, then we can go to him This problem cannot go to him If I go to this problem, then nothing will happen If a person is completely convinced about cleanliness, then he is a healer And when I go to him, I say that this person is very clean Then he says that you are getting worried, leave it So what will happen? Something good is going to happen by going to that person So we also have to understand that how much we can expect from that person And according to that, we tune our relations Earlier there was a radio, now there is FM So when we tune our relations properly, then we get good results Every relationship is a separate station And we have to tune every relationship It’s not that we have to work with all the relations at the same frequency I am like this, I will work with everyone like this No, it’s not like that, we have to adjust in every relationship When a person meets someone, then it feels good to meet them Sometimes it happens that two people are talking and one person is coming closer and the other person is going away So this is also a part of culture For example, if you are talking to someone in India Then two people are talking and they will keep a distance of 1-2 feet So if you go to America and talk to someone and there is a distance of 2 feet, then they will consider you rude They will say, talk to me, talk to me So the distance between two people is also an expectation So in this, there are different types of expectations There are different types of nature There are different types of expectations So what happens is that we are not in the same station with everyone So we understand the nature of the person If the person is like this, then we do this with him If the person is like this, then we do this with him We can’t change ourselves completely It’s not that we have to be a little chameleon We can’t change ourselves completely But still we can adjust a little So we tune ourselves according to the nature of the person We can reduce the problems that come There are problems in every situation But if our expectations are very opposite to the nature of the person Then the problem is more But if we tune our expectations according to the nature of the person Then the problem is less Do you have any questions? 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