One thing we should never do when we are happy and one thing we shouldn’t do when we are angry

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thank you Mantra made Kaikai feel as if Dashrath is betraying her and Dashrath only acted as if you are very dear to me but now in the real time to come to show to show one’s affection to show one’s real color you can talk big things but put your mouth put your mouth where your money is put your money where your mouth is so you know walk your talk so he showed so much affection to me but at the time when the real thing is to be done he is enthroned Kaushalya’s son this is a betrayal she doesn’t bring in the bride price so that is quite unlikely but just that she felt I am the dearest so my son should become the next at least Mantra made her feel as if you are being betrayed there is a conspiracy afoot and you have to do whatever it takes and when she went and demanded from Dashrath that give me these two boons and Dashrath was in a very happy mood like one of the Ramayan commentators says that when you are happy never make any promises to anyone so he says that two things when you are angry don’t speak anything don’t speak in anger speak in anger you will give the best speech that you will regret and when you are happy don’t promise anything so Dashrath is very happy and he says whatever you want in fact he says thrice in the name of Ram whatever you ask I will provide and then when he says send Ram to the forest for 40 years and throw Bharata as the king Dashrath feels totally betrayed and that betrayal is extremely painful he says I am bound by my words that I have to do what you tell me to do but because you have betrayed me in such a terrible way he says I reject you I reject you as my wife and it is Ram who remembers that I will describe later that when Ram defeats Ravan at that time Dashrath also appears along with the gods in the sky and then Ram offers his respects to Dashrath and Ram asks now please just accept Kanki back please forgive her for what she did whatever she did was ordained by destiny and Dashrath also as anger has gone down he accepts it so in this case when both of them feel as if they have been betrayed Kanki feels that that which I was entitled to that has been taken away from me and Dashrath how could somebody in my own family demand something like this from me so we could say in this situation that objectively speaking we could say one side is right and one side is wrong who is right broadly speaking Dashrath is right and Kanki was wrong now still we will see that there is no there is no punishment for Kanki