What can we do in a relationship when the other person doesn’t want clarification?

From Shadbhuj gaur P

Based on the Gita-daily article: Don’t just talk about the other – talk with the other
But what if the other person doesnt want to listen to clarification and impose his own assumptions and conclusions by word jugglery, heavy words and shouting(banging in iskcon term) so that the one clarifying bows down to him and accept whatever he says…what if the person doesnt accept a neutral mediator…isnt it best then to avoid such persons….than to patch up…

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… … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … … article was that just talking about someone and then spreading bad vibrations, that doesn’t solve the problem. It’s not that always talking will lead to solution of the problem. We know Krishna himself, he went and talked with Duryodhana and the Kauravas and that talking did not lead to a solution.
They eventually had to, the talks had to end at that time. So it’s not always that talking will lead to a solution, but the point is talking about someone without talking with that person is unlikely to ever lead to a solution. So if by talking with the person we find that there is no way to a solution, then we just move to a separate arena and continue our own spiritual life at a safe distance in some other avenue of service.
Thank you.