Why are more people experiencing suicidal urges nowadays?

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Summary

In a world increasingly driven by individual autonomy and material success, rising existential distress has led to a surge in mental health struggles. This transcript explores the root causes of these feelings through an existential and spiritual lens.

Key Insights on Modern Suicidal Urges and Spirituality

• Loss of the Bigger Picture: As society moves away from recognizing a reality or force greater than ourselves, life is viewed as entirely isolated, reducing existence down to a mere balance of personal pleasure versus pain.

• The Trap of Hyper-Autonomy: Redefining existence as completely independent of higher realities fosters the mindset that if life fails to deliver immediate satisfaction, individuals feel entirely justified in ending it.

• Spiritual Bankruptcy: The harrowing urge to end one’s life serves as an alarm bell, highlighting a deep spiritual bankruptcy and a loss of connection to a higher purpose.

• Fragile Self-Worth and Identity: Modern identity is heavily tied to worldly success, power, and standing out. When individuals fail to measure up or feel insignificant, they question the point of living.

• Contrast with Past Societies: Historically, rigid hierarchies existed, yet individuals found enduring purpose and peace because their self-worth wasn’t contingent on proving personal superiority over others.

• Revising Our Understanding of the Self: Overcoming this self-destructive thinking requires addressing the root cause by re-evaluating our existential definitions and rediscovering the wisdom of spiritual traditions.

Full Transcription

Question Where does the urge to end one’s life come from especially when one is feeling unworthy How is this urge related to spirituality? Answer The more we become disconnected from the understanding that we are a part of something bigger than ourselves that our existence is not just isolated or fragmented then the more we think that there is nothing higher than our pleasure or pain as the basis for our decision making for example if a person is a part of a family as contrasted with person who is all alone person who is a part of family and is committed to their family will think about how their actions will affect their children their family members and that put some boundaries on what they will do and what they will not do same applies to our understanding of our very existence in the past even if everybody was not religious there are some understanding that there is some force beyond ourselves which governs things like life and death and that’s why to appease that unknown higher being there were some rituals like death rituals burying the dead or burning the dead or whatever burning not just setting fire but burning in a sanctified way so as we humans have started redefining our existence as entirely autonomous of any higher realities we have started believing that our that our life and our death is entirely in our hands and thus that if my life is not giving me the pleasure that I seek what reason is there for me to live if my life is not giving me the things that I want in my life then I should have the right to end my life in fact the right to commit suicide has been enshrined as a right in some countries in the world and this world ultimately can have many circumstantial causes in terms of why somebody might become frustrated but ultimately in terms of existential pain mental frustration becomes so much that a person feels I not only can but I have to end my life and who is going to stop me from it that does not arise solely from circumstantial conceptions it arises from existential ideas existential ideas about who we are and what we are meant to do what life is all about so if we are able to deal with the root we need to consider we need to revise our understanding of our life and that is why spiritual traditions and their wisdom valuable and indispensable things if the purpose of life is simply to make it within the world and if I have no assets why should I even live at all why should I even continue to lead what is likely to be a life of insignificance and distress at a purely fragmented or existential level we need to find an answer to this question and that is why it is important for each one of us to look at the world and look towards the bigger picture so it is not that the urge to end one’s life is meant to take one to a spirituality rather that urge is so horrifying that it makes one think of where is the surge coming from why am I thinking of ending one’s life my life the very presence of that urge is meant to underscore the alarming spiritual bankruptcy that characterizes our existence today and thereby draw attention to the importance of having or at least not having exploring whether life has some higher purpose in the past in many ways society was more hierarchical than the present there were clearly people who lived some people were far more prosperous than others some people were far more powerful than others but that in itself did not make those who were inferior or insecure want to end their lives we are still able to find their place and purpose in the world because their sense of self worth did not come from them needing to prove their superiority over others so our only sense of identity comes from how big we are in this world or how big we can become in the world then if we find that we cannot become big then the next question comes up then what is the point of living and thus one comes towards the direction of wanting to end one’s life that kind of self destructive thinking is to be avoided there has to be a better understanding of what the self is